This is where we all have to start. If you love yourself you have the foundation to proceed and step up to the next level. If you suspect that maybe you don't love yourself enough - please don't skip this step! It's essential and vitally important! And even if you do love yourself - come back here now and then to make sure you keep yourself love alive. This is fundamental - I cannot underline it enough! In the process of learning to love yourself are also included a number of other important steps.
These are: Self healing, Know yourself Improve, your self-esteem, Love others, Forgive (yourself and others), Gratitude. You may need healing to be able to love yourself, you must know yourself in order to be able to love yourself; you need to improve your self-esteem so that you can love yourself. When you love yourself you can also love others, you can forgive others and yourself, and you will start feeling gratitude for everything that you are and have in your life.
To really succeed in creating your desired new lifestyle, you cannot skip these steps. To many of us, these can be the most difficult steps, because we are so used to diminishing ourselves, and we don't realize how important it is to express love to ourselves. It seems awkward and we have not been taught to do that. But as soon as we start living this way, it will change everything. So how do you love yourself? Well, how do you love someone else? You try to make them happy.
So, think of what would make you happy. Create situations and do things that you enjoy. Be a caring person to yourself! Be kind to yourself! Treat yourself well. What would you do if someone spoke ill of somebody you loved? You would rise up and defend that person you hold dear. But when you say something diminishing or negative about yourself - it seems to be OK.
Thursday, June 4, 2009
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